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If you treat someone like a celebrity, the many times they will treat you like a fan. The key to this is understanding that power dynamic and in this video I'm going to show you exactly how to switch that around so that they chase you. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to show you why chasing someone else is the problem in of itself and the energy dynamics that are going on. Anytime we are chasing someone and I'm going to show you exactly what to do and said because when you switch this around, it actually has the power dynamic work in your favor.
Now in general, anytime you are attracting a specific person into your life, a lot of times what happens is we end up putting them on this metaphorical pedestal, so we put them high up on this pedestal and then they are automatically further away.
Now in my own life, I've had many times where this has happened, especially early on when I began dating, I started dating and a little bit later in life, I was probably about 16 or 17. And I remember that one of my first girlfriends that I ever had, I really liked her. We started dating. And then what happened is she started to pull away.
She started to pull away and I started to feel that resistance and I would be thinking about, or I'd be wondering what is she doing? And I would kind of get in my head about it. Now what happened was this was a time when, uh, my, my dad divorced my ex step mom, for those of you that don't know my story, my ex step mom was emotionally, physically and mentally abusive and controlling. So my brother and I weren't allowed to have friends before that.
So all of a sudden, you know, when my dad divorced her at 15, 16 years old, now my brother and I are allowed to have friends. Now my brother and I are allowed to even date. So I had one of my first girlfriends and um, this was like a whole new world. And at the same time we started today, I started to put her on a pedestal and then I started chasing her, hoping that she would like come back to me and just like me and validate me.
Then what happened is I started to realize that, uh, I started to become friends with the new group within high school. So there was like a new group of friends that I started to be with. And at the same time, there was a couple, uh, you know, girls in that group that liked me and my brother, both of us, we were called the Doughty bros.
Now what happened was, is as that started to happen, my attention went away from the one that I was chasing. And all of a sudden she could feel that energetic pool of me not feeding her the attention and her, uh, and me not chasing her anymore. Well, I remember when that happened, she then started to become interested me again.
It was like she felt that energetic pool. And then I remember she would call me for like two or three weeks and I just wasn't as interested because now I have this whole new group of friends and I realized that there were many more opportunities than me putting this one person on a pedestal. And it was like two or three weeks of her colony calling me.
Then eventually it was just like we just, um, she kinda got the hint, got the picture. However, what changed was my own energy. Once my energy changed, that's when everything began to change with this process is I didn't view her on the pedestal. Plus I then wasn't being the cameo in her movie.
When it comes to attracting love into our life, if we put someone on a pedestal, what we do is we put them vibrationally separate from us. We say, I want you, I want you. And if you say I want you, it means I don't have, I don't have you. So, and you know, people aren't possessions anyways, but the idea behind this is that then we feel resistance.
We feel the resistance because we feel the lack of that person not being in our life. Now also think about the frame of this perspective when we come at it from the frame of I want you and I lack the love and I wouldn't want you in my life cause then I can love myself more.
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